Did the middle-age women meetup just totally go poof?

I saw someone post a "speed friend" event recently for women 30/40/50's and then saw the subsequent posts about agism....was this cancelled? I am 41F anyhow, currently going through some of the most lonely and challenging mental and social health issues of my lifetime, and hoping to rebuild/find a strong positive community. I was going to check out this event, though I guess the hate got too bad?

I am open to friends of all ages anyhow, and would love to start something like this for "our" people -- just a monthly, cozy time for women to connect about life and the boat we are all in together...enjoy food and a drink, maybe do some crafting, I am open

I am not a huge drinker, though love a good coffee or tea (also 420 friendly). I love dancing, bookstores, thrift shopping, museums, festivals, etc. I see so many posts here and the regular Denver reddit extolling the woes of meeting people/making friends, and I feel them with all my heart, especially as someone close to turning 42

It would be cool to have a monthly regular meetup (no age cut-off, but also just a caveat that the focus is on "middle age" -- however you define that, I know there's no clear cut off! All ages would be welcome), that could maybe turn into whatever other socializing organically as happens. What do you all think? Am I just having wishful thinking that people could come together like this? (and if so, feel free to DM!)