First time in a real WLW relationship
I've always known I was bisexual since like 7th grade. I was in a few talking stages and week long relationships. It almost got to the point where I questioned if I even liked girls. Even though I KNOW I do. Well, this past year I've been with a girl and it is the first actual relationships I've had with a woman. Now that I'm with her, I feel like I'm actually a lesbian and men have been appalling to me this entire time LOL
Anyways, one thing I've noticed about being with a woman versus a man... men don't argue. They just agree even if they're "right". Women don't do that; we stand our ground. That has caused a lot of arguments between us in the first two months. We almost broke up twice. But one day we had an argument that lowkey opened our eyes about each other and ever since we have been healthier than ever, haven't argued, have communicated beautifully, and are genuinely happy everyday with each other. I honestly feel like I won the lottery with this girl <3
Stereotypes and expectations on what a WLW relationship honestly made me scared to adventure any further besides talking stages. But with her, I've realized none of that is true. :)
Posted Aug 12, 2026, 8:19 PM UTC