I think my mom is cheating on my dad. But I don’t care enough to say anything.

To start - my dad is not an excellent person by any means. In fact he’s a narcissist who probably should not be married. And he’s also very controlling, angry, mentally ill, really not mine of my mom’s cup of tea. I would not be upset if they got a divorce.

I’ve caught on to something. Whenever my dad is at work, like once or twice a month, my mom “gets ready” and will go shopping for like 5 hours and come back home with nothing. She has done this for as long as I can remember. And today is one of those days. She’s “shopping” but she accidentally texted me “I’m almost here” and then said “wrong person”

I’m honestly going to act like nothing happened because I don’t care at all if she is cheating on my dad. Is this wrong of me? I have no other evidence that she could be cheating either. Just these multiple hour long shopping trips which I always thought was strange.

Posted Aug 12, 2026, 8:20 PM UTC

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