New game to get help wife with low sex drive

My wife has been struggling with her sex drive and I have been feeling deflated on trying to initiate and be a bit romantic and being turned down for one reason or another. Its been months almost a year since I spent anytime in a cage we used to be in a chastity cuckold dynamic 3 years ago but moving to a small town from the city put a big damper on that.

Today I showed her the lockbox I ordered and she said she really liked it with a big smile on her face after I showed her how it worked. Today is the first day the key is going to be locked in a timed lock box for 7 days after getting a full lubed hand job. Also instead of dice we used a spinner app (called: tiny decisions) and she made the choices 2-12. It has a history of the spins. Today she seemed to really enjoy spinning to see how long im going to be locked for what what my release would be.

So this is what I sent her and she said she would like to try it out.

(If any of you have any suggestions on more things to add to the wheel let me know and ill suggest them to my wife. )

Hey, I’ve been thinking about us and the chastity stuff from before. I know things have been different/ difficult sexually and you’re not really feeling sexual most of the time. It makes me mentally return to chastity because it feels like it gives me a outlet with me having a higher sex drive and makes me feel like I am denied for a reason when locked. I know i wanted to try pumping but the amount of time it takes consistently doesnt feel worth it at the moment.

I don’t want to put any pressure on you or make you feel like you have to manage my key or feel guilty about giving / not giving enough releases together. I

I was wondering if you’d be open to trying something simple that takes the decision-making off you almoat completely. I’d put the key in a timed lockbox so you never have to hold it or decide when I get unlocked. When the time is up we could roll a die for how many days I’m locked again, and another die for what kind of release happens for me. ( You will also have the choice if you want to have intercourse instead of the rolled releases if you are desiring it)

An example of what the rolls could be on a die.

1. Stay caged, orgasm with vibrator while you watch / talk to me.

2. Ruined hand job

3. watch and tell me how to cum

4. Full lubed hand job

5. Fleshlight or BJ your choice

6. Your choice

A) 1= 1 Day and next roll can roll twice and add the two rolls together.

2. 2 day

3. 3 days

4. 4 days

5. 5days

6. 6 days

B)

1. 2 Days and next roll can roll twice and add together.

2. 4 Days

3. 6 Days

4. 8 Days

5. 10 Days

6. 12 Days

You could still get yourself off whenever you want, or have me help you with the toys with zero expectation that it leads to anything for me unless you want to use you vib on me after since ill be locked or play with my prostate if your into it or whatvever you desire at the moment. The whole point would be that you don’t have to be in charge of my denial or feel like it’s a chore also ypu would have the option of being more intimate if you are feeling in the mood and change the rolled release to intercourse if you desire.

If this doesn’t sound appealing at all thats completely fine, I just wanted to put the idea out there in writing so you can think about it without me talking at you and mumbling and missing info. Also we could try this for a month as a trial to see what we both think about it with no pressure on either of us if its not working for any reason. Let me know your thoughts either way.