Hair advice

Everyday I wake up and have major cowlick in the back and in the front (which my bangs don’t help) ik it seems like it’s not a big deal but this is to me I’m tired of wetting my hair everyday ect. I just wanna be able to freaking brush and go but I have extreme cowlicks and bed head. I’m so exhausted from it and it’s making me very insecure and just over it. I just don’t wanna worry about my hair and just go. Is there other people that deal with this ?