Micro cheating in 1.5 year marriage advice. F25 M27

Hi! Im 25F married to 27M and we've known eachother a long time. We got married early 2025 and our s x life has been on and off active since. I have pcos now so I get severe depression and weird bloating often since July 2025 and since then whenever I'm in an off phase my sex drive just goes down (Im talking once every week or 1.5 week).

Ive made it extremely clear to my husband how I consider watching porn in anyway as Micro cheating and I dont like it at all. Watching it together to randomly spice it up or whatever is ok but regular consumption is.. disgusting. We have our relationship checkups and I've asked multiple times if he still does and hes always replied as no. Recently I found out that he does, pretty regularly. Im talking 2 days ago, then 5 days ago type shi. I dont know how to react.

Ive also made it completely clear how adding any weirdly naked girl on any social is weird and I dont add any weirdly naked guy either. I just saw multiple naked women added. Not public posts naked but story naked which I feel like is somehow worse because how can you know he's been looking...

Idk what to do lol I'm in a complete shock this is an otherwise almost perfect husband. He works and Im a house wife (life happened i couldn't pursue a career). He doesnt like to do much around the house but we have house help everyday. He gives alot of attention and love and constant checking in but what just happened i dont even know how to process. My main concern is trusting, how do I trust his simple answers anymore. Its not as if i would've gotten mad at the porn consumption if he had replied to me?

Tl;dr M27 regular consumption of p rn even though its agreed upon as Micro cheating and asked about multiple times. Has always told me no, found out today he does. Also adds naked women on socials which hasn't been a problem before but sudden increase. Created trust issues