47 M4F - Looking for a connection
I’m a 47 year old married man. Married for 21 years and together for 27, but for around 12 years our relationship has been a dead bedroom. Over time, I’ve realised just how much I miss intimacy, affection, excitement and, most of all, feeling genuinely desired by someone.
I’m not looking to simply fill a void or rush into anything. I’m looking for a real connection, the kind where you can talk for hours, laugh together, flirt, share little secrets, and feel those butterflies when you see a message from that person.
I love music, good food, good wine and enjoying the pleasures life has to offer. I also travel around Europe quite often.
I’m from Portugal, easygoing and curious to meet someone who is in a similar place in life and looking for the same kind of connection.
If this resonates with you, say hello. Let’s chat, get to know each other, and see where it goes.
Posted Aug 12, 2026, 8:27 PM UTC