Would you be upset?

Rant

My family and my husband’s family both know we have one euploid embryo we are about to transfer. When my dr offered another egg retrieval with a FET/fresh transfer 5 days later all combined, we agreed we could FINALLY have a surprise maybe a year from now (if everything goes to plan). I wanted to be able to surprise everyone with a 2nd pregnancy when they only knew about the one embryo. Again- this is assuming everything goes to plan.

Today, 2 days out from my egg retrieval… 3 days ahead of the transfer, I get a text from my MIL saying she’s praying for me and the numbers sound good…. My husband told her everything. My heart sank. I’m on a million hormones… and lost my mind. I’m so heartbroken that I can’t have just ONE surprise!

Posted Aug 12, 2026, 8:27 PM UTC

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