36/31 [MF4A] #NYC — Singles + FWB Ready to Mingle Party | Aug 16 | BRING A FWB.
SINGLES AND FWBs — THIS PARTY IS FOR YOU.
My FWB and I are putting together a small, private Singles + FWB Ready-to-Mingle Party in NYC on August 16.
Come solo or BRING A FWB. PERMISSON IS KEY TO PLAY!!!!!!!!
If you have someone you already have chemistry with but you're both single, bring them. You don't have to be an established couple to have someone you enjoy going to events with.
The entire idea behind this party is giving singles and FWBs a place to meet, mingle, make connections, and have a fun night without the usual expectation that everyone needs to arrive as a traditional couple.
BRING A FWB
Have an FWB? Bring them.
Have a play partner? Bring them.
Have someone you're casually seeing and you're both single? Come together.
Coming completely solo? You're welcome too.
You don't need to arrive with someone, but if you've been looking for an event where you and your FWB can go together while still being able to socialize and meet other people, that's exactly what we're trying to create.
Everyone should understand that this is a ready-to-mingle environment. Coming with an FWB doesn't mean you're expected to stay attached to each other all night.
THE PLAN
We're looking to keep this small, private, balanced, and comfortable.
We're aiming for roughly 12 to 15 people total, with a higher women-to-men ratio.
Women can be bi, bi-curious, or genuinely open to both women and men and comfortable socializing with other women.
Men should be straight, single, respectful, social, and confident without being pushy.
We're looking for people who can actually socialize and understand that chemistry, boundaries, communication, and consent come first.
THE WOMEN PICK THE MEN
One thing we're keeping from the original idea:
THE WOMEN WILL HAVE A SAY IN WHICH MEN ARE INVITED.
I am already one of the men attending. For the remaining male spots, the women attending will have input on who joins us.
We want the people actually attending to be attracted to and comfortable with the group—not just fill the room with whoever messages first.
WHY WE'RE DOING THIS
A lot of lifestyle and group events are built around established couples.
That can make things harder for solo people or two single FWBs who want to experience events together without pretending they're a couple.
So we're doing something specifically for that crowd.
Maybe you come solo and meet someone you click with.
Maybe you bring your FWB and both make new connections.
Maybe you meet someone here who becomes the person you attend future events with.
That's the whole point: create connections instead of requiring people to already have one.
ABOUT US
I'm 36, 6'4", athletic, confident, experienced, and easygoing.
She's 31, attractive, fun, social, open-minded, and does ballet.
We're both laid-back, discreet, respectful, drama-free, and big on communication, boundaries, consent, and everyone feeling comfortable.
We'd strongly prefer to meet in person or at minimum video chat beforehand with anyone seriously interested.
Nobody should be walking into a room completely blind. Meet us, ask questions, see if you like our personalities and the vibe, and decide if it's something you actually want to attend.
No pressure. No surprises.
📅 August 16
📍 NYC area
🔞 21+ only
🏠 Exact location shared privately with confirmed guests
🚫 No drugs
🧼 DDF / clean expected
COME SOLO OR BRING A FWB.
Singles don't need to be excluded from the fun just because they aren't part of an established couple.
Bring good energy, respect everyone's boundaries, mingle, make some connections, and let's have a great night.
And seriously—if you have a cool FWB who's been wanting to explore events with you, BRING THEM.
Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:05 PM UTC