41(M4F) SFO Bay Area/PA/San Jose/San Mateo/Sunnyvale- Looking for the consistent spark
Hey there,
Married 41 M, travel to the Bay Area for work frequently and can host at an upscale hotel when in town. I’m looking for a genuine connection with one AP and to connect at somewhat emotional level not too deep but not at the surface level either and build just good friendship and bonding over time.
I understand we have our lives to go back to I have done this before and know how the game works, since I’m out of town you don’t have to worry about any drama or entanglements. I know how to maintain discretion and perfectly understand my boundaries. Looking for consistency and not interested in ONS or short flings, I’m willing to put in effort by consistently staying in touch if not daily but at the level that works for both and have non-judgmental time when I’m in town. Apart from being witty, caring, drama-free, I have been told that I’m a good host and make sure all my partner’s needs are met 😜
I’m just a casual, fun loving, regular guy who would like to keep things simple and fun, if this is something that intrigues you, HMU and we can quickly share picture and see if we vibe.
Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:08 PM UTC