Which neighbourhood is best

We are buying a house in Kingston, a city that we do not know (we are moving from out of town) and we need your help. We are strongly considering houses in the Calvin Park and or Sunnyside area. We’re looking for a community feel, we’re not so concerned about school district. We are blessed to be able to afford private school if necessary, but our son is currently 16 months old so not an urgent concern. I want an area where I can say hi to my neighbours as I walk by and where I know everybody. I want an area where the houses are well cared for. I want to see kids playing in the front yard and riding their bikes on the street. I’m hoping for teenagers that live close by who want to babysit, and families that could potentially help us out with childcare in an emergency as our village is going to be further away. We are also hoping for an area that is walkable to some things (library, gym, waterfront, shopping, etc). I know this is a lot to ask in a neighbourhood. If you are living in these areas and can give me some insight into the community and the feel it would be so helpful and we would really appreciate it. Thank you. Also, if you have other areas that have this kind of feeling, please let me know we will consider them.