40 [M4F] #NYC looking for that smile again
Hello and I hope this find you well
I am looking to find that person that I can wake up and find that smile again. Someone to be on my team. To cheer me up when I am down. To laugh. To help you with your struggles. To say good morning and then to hear about each others day and to say good night. To share the twisted and darkness of the world and try to make sense of it.
I know that might be complete all over the place but thats me at times. Maybe you can help me focus. Maybe you are just as much an agent of chaos as me. Humans are messy
About me: 40 year old Dad with probably the knees of a 60 year old ( long story) nerdy and corny ( at times). I love to laugh and I find that the most attractive thing about a person. I love to read, visit museums and love a zoo or aquarium. I like to watch for birds and putter in my garden. Ill occasionally hit the movie theaters if something is of interest. A regular guy thats down to earth, easy going yet some how still fussy and full of anxiety.
I know im selling myself
About you: be kind and funny. You make me laugh and you will make me melt. Being a parent is not required but is a plus. Be prepared to be info dumped on my next special interest. Most of all be yourself. Ideally you are between 30 and 50. Have most of your marbles. And not be afraid to catch deep feelings.
Not looking to blow up your thing even though I am chaotic.I promise I am #not about
Hope to hear from you
Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:09 PM UTC