Who here was discarded while the relationship was still great?

FA Breakup

My relationship was super short but an intense 3 months. I felt like she and I were completely aligned if that makes sense like fully understood each other. 10/10 chemistry, interests, values, humor, the frequency of our convos. The ending was so abrupt and shocking like the flip of a light switch, I went from being excited and falling in love with a person who vanished into thin air. It happened just before a special date we had planned the next night.

I’m 37 and lead a social life where I’ve connected with many ppl. Never experienced anything like this in my life. I haven’t been hung up on someone since I was like 19 or 20. It’s been 2 months of radio silence.

I ask this question bc there are a ton of posts that are heartbreaking but I don’t relate to. The relationship didn’t last long enough to go thru the challenges.

I’ve never felt anger toward her at all, it’s just sad, and I have empathy for her too. Nothing hurtful was said from either side. She was panicking and I was confused.

Anyone else have this experience? Would be interested to hear the take of an FA on this too. What is this experience like for you?

Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:10 PM UTC

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