39 [M4M] Looking for a dom #online for long term hierarchical kinky friendship

39, fit sub on the east coast USA. Looking for a long term casual / soft dom. Ideally you are a younger than me, fit, masculine, cocky showoff (twink / twunk with abs is a huge plus but not required).

Not looking for 24/7 or tpe. I have a life and relationship (we are open for this online play) so sometimes those things come first and not you.

What drives me to obey: a cocky confident showoff attitude. Verbal and visual (not looking for a text only dom).

I'll follow your lead but some suggested aspects of our dynamic could include:

- cum control, chastity, cbt

- routines / habits

- tasks, posing, challenges

- rewards / punishments for nutrition and workouts goals

Things that can come with time & trust:

- Face in pics / videos

- some other harder kinks

Limits / Not into: feminization, blood, scat, marks left on my body, extreme pain, public, breath play, blackmail.