Girls, who had a love marriage, where the hell did you find your husband?

Dating openly discouraged because:

High School - we're kids and education is imp (valid tho)

College - open invitation for drama and rumors

Work - someone will get fired

... So when the hell am I supposed to date?

Personally speaking, I need to be friends with the man/woman for atleast a year before I start to pursue them romantically. That means I constantly need to interact with them on a daily basis.

I'm in the first year of college. Dating is absolutely not my priority rn. But eventually Ik that I want someone.

So I'm just curious... Where the hell did you find your husband? When the hell did you find your husband? How the hell did your parents react to your husband?

(Im a female btw)