28 [M4A] looking for CG
After graduating college, and getting started on my career I have suddenly found myself with a lot more free time and the desire to finally explore ABDL/cgl side of myself. A little about me, I like being outdoors, playing games, reading, and drawing. I’m looking for someone to build something real with.
I’m seeking a long-term dynamic with someone who can handle distance (I’m realistic that the right person may not be local), communicates their needs clearly, and is also interested in something that can grow over time. I’m not looking for one-sided play or someone who disappears when things dont turn out exactly the way they want immediately. Consistency, honesty, and the ability to talk about what we both want (and don’t want) matter a lot to me.
In the ABDL side of things, I’m still exploring and open to figuring out the shape of the dynamic together rather than coming in with a rigid checklist. I’m more interested in mutual comfort, care, and the emotional side of it, but also have an interest in a more intimate relationship. I’m happy to discuss preferences once we’ve started talking so there is no confusion:)
If this sounds like it might fit what you’re looking for, feel free to message me. Tell me a bit about yourself, what you’re hoping to find, and anything that stood out in this post. Looking forward to hearing from people who are serious about building something steady
Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:13 PM UTC