Losing my virginity (first time with IPP)

So I just had my 6 week follow up and my doctor cleared me for sex . He told me my penis looked really good … although I heard him in the next room telling some other schmuck their penis looked really good too.

I feel pretty good about my new dick , I have a somewhat aggressive dog ear on the base of the left side of my penis but other than that it looks very good .

The tip of the right cylinder really jabs me when I’m cycling and I do get pretty sore.

I’m worried that sex is going to hurt alot and possibly cause damage.

My problem is I’m single and a bit of a womanizer fuckboy.
So all my lady friends are used to hour(s) long sessions with my trimix dick getting their back blown out .

Im supposed to see a lady friend tomorrow evening and I’m thinking about canceling.

Im also thinking of maybe telling her I had some other surgery (maybe hernia or vasectomy )
which is why I have to go slow / gentle .
And then use my fingers / tongue to pick up some of the slack.

I have another lover who knows about my surgery who I’m seeing next month .
But this particular girl I’m seeing tomorrow I don’t want to find out .