ABCD boys not committing serious relationship- regret later

I see a common problem this is about college-going ABCD boys 18-26 who are ready to date, go on hinge dates , go on dates, but never commit. Either they prioritize their studies, internship, job, etc., but only to realize that they are 34-35 and they don't have anyone to date when they are ready or get into a serious relationship.

The girls are really willing to commit or want to have a serious relationship, but they just shut them away, even though they like them. It seems that girls are more mature for their age within the Asian community, and the boys are not. Girls are struggling to get a real, serious, mature ABCD boy, but they couldn't find any serious ABCD boy who wants to date and commit. Is this a pattern you guys are all seeing?