Is it normal?

I started making a tulpa at July 12, so it's been a month, yet still i don't feel a strong presence. The other thing is that most of the time I'm not sure if she is the one answering or I'm just parroting. I had only two situations when I'm 100% sure it was her, but bought happened at the middle of the night when i just wake up for some reason and I'm half asleep. I've been narrating every day... I know creating tilpa take's time, but I'm not sure if I'm progressing in normal pace. This is my first time creating tulpa, so I'd love to know if this is normal or there's clearly something wrong.