so sikip it cannot fit

hi! me and my bf tried having sex for the first time yesterday and our main dilemma was he cannot make it fit inside me. it was my first time rin talaga and his dick was gritty kaya ang hirap pagkasyahin 😭 any tips for when we try it again next time?

he fingered me a lot of times already na but 1 finger lang kaya inside, pag 2 na medyo super full na ng feeling lol 😭 what ways pa ba para lumuwag HSHSHA