32 [M4F] #Syracuse - Looking for my forever Good Girl

Hello subs!

I am 32 years old, 5' 9", Male, and I live near Syracuse, NY.

I'm also white with reddish brown hair.

🌟 A little about me:

• Dad to 2 beautiful girls ❤️ (Can't make more)

• I consider myself a gentleman who treats everyone with respect

• I have steady employment and am advancing in my career

• Military veteran

• I LOVE music and I listen to a little bit of everything but my favorites are Emo/Alt, Metalcore, and old Country

• I love fixing things and am handy around the house

• I will always voice my opinions or concerns when necessary/appropriate

• I am chivalrous and fiercely protective, but also not concerned with traditional gender roles

• I love deep conversation and stimulating my mind in different ways

• I am emotionally intelligent

• I am a clear communicator

• I do enjoy videogames but it's not a significant part of my life

• I've been trying to get into mindfulness

• I have a very dark sense of humor 😆 and love to play around

• Politically center

• I love trying new foods and cultures

• 420 friendly

• I don't drink much these days but I do like a good beer from time to time

• I love nature documentaries

• (Too many things to list plus where's the fun in knowing everything up front)

⭐️ What I am looking for in a long term dynamic:

• I'm looking for an IRL dynamic with someone that identifies as a submissive. That can present in different ways depending on your personality/desires.

• Someone who is at least somewhat kinky with a high sex drive because it is a big part of it for me, and my last relationship ended in part due to sexual incompatibility.

• I'm looking for someone I can form a deep bond with, and connect with on a very intimate level. Someone I can be honest with. Someone I can be authentic with. If we can develop that deep level of trust and intimacy, I'll be able to watch over and guide you, taking care of your physical and emotional wellbeing.

• Ideally I'd be very loving and affectionate most of the time, but also willing to assert my place over you and remind you through words or actions of your place as my submissive.

• I'm interested in a medium-high protocol D/s dynamic, but of course we'll have to see what we're both comfortable with.

⭐️ What I would expect from you:

• Honesty above all. If I am to be responsible for your wellbeing I must be able to trust that you are honest and transparent with me.

• Willingness to learn and improve yourself in different ways, kink or vanilla.

• Respect. Obviously it is expected that you speak and behave in a manner that is respectful to me. Of course playing and joking around is more than welcome.

• Obedience to all commands/requests within reason. I will never request something that has been established as your hard limit, but I also expect you to speak up if something does make you uncomfortable. I should say I don't mind a little bratting here and there but I'm not interested in a constant power struggle.

• Service submission. I want a sub who *enjoys* performing acts of service as part of their submission to me. That could be household chores, fetching something I might need, doing laundry, etc. Of course this would all be discussed and agreed upon.

• Initiative. Do your best to learn and then anticipate my needs. That way it's one less thing I have to worry about.

• Emotional maturity. No one is perfect, including me, but I expect to be able to communicate any issues clearly and without attitude, name-calling, etc. I will always behave in this manner, as well.

• A desire to please me. This includes day-to-day things but also sexually. Like I stated earlier I have a high drive that needs to be met. Sex isn't even close to everything but it's important to me, nonetheless.

• Stable employment. We live in a time where you need more than 1 source to live comfortably. As much as I'd love to be able to be the sole provider ot just isn't plausible. Doesn't have to be a lot but it is a non-negotiable.

⭐️ What you can expect from me:

• Honesty above all, right? Same goes for me. I will be honest and transparent with you so you can truly trust me to have your best interest at heart.

• Respect. Yes you deserve it too, and I will never disrespect you in a way you do not enthusiastically consent to.

• Structure and accountability. I believe in having an agreed upon rule and ritual set that encourages personal growth, submission, and household efficiency.

• Management. I will ensure the bills are taken care of on time, the cars are maintained, the phone calls are made, the necessities are provided, the repairs in and around the home are made, etc. Your focus should be on me so I can take care of the rest.

• Emotional care. Your wellbeing is my highest priority and that includes your emotional state. I will strive to make sure you feel appreciated, loved, and worthy as a human *and* as my sub/partner.

• Princess treatment. As my sub I want you to feel cherished. I am a naturally chivalrous person but my focus on you goes beyond opening doors or doing the driving. Long day? I'll draw you a bath. Sore? A nice massage goes a long way for aching muscles. Tired? I'll tuck you in and kiss your forehead so you can get your rest. Feeling down? I'll hold you and reassure you of how much you are loved. I want you to feel like you're the center of my attention because you will be.

⭐️ Some of my kinks or things I'm curious about, none of which are deal breakers:

• Oral

• Edging

• Cum control

• Light bondage

• Denial

• Spanking

• Collaring

• Public play

• Free use

• CNC

• Spitting

• Watersports/pee (giving only)

⭐️ Things I am NOT into:

• Extreme humiliation

• Extreme degradation

• Cuckolding/poly

• BBW (you are all beautiful, it's just not for me)

• Anything illegal obv

If you resonate with what I've written above and would like to reach out, please DM me and tell me your age, sex, location, a general description of your appearance (or a pic if you're comfortable), and what interested you about my post.

Thank you for taking the time to make it this far and I hope to hear from you.