It’s not always good to put yourself in other’s shoes learn to observe problems as an outsider

Empathy is a very powerful tool when it comes to understanding the world around you. But it can also be extremely destructive to yourself and is often a reason why so many people try not to.

For those who are extremely empathetic, caring, and understanding of others, they often lose control of themselves or emotions due to constantly putting themselves in others shoes. You don’t always have to be a nice person. It’s okay to be an outsider especially for places where you don’t belong.

Or if your presence wouldn’t make anything better. This doesn’t mean forget and ignore. It means observe as an outsider. Without involving yourself.