I'm a 22 yo male and I am extremely jealous and envious of ther mens who have girlfriends

Caution: Ugly Cry Content

First of all I want to admit that I am not a Incel with psychological issues and I am very very sorry for my peasant level broken English, I'm still going to post this despite it will make you guys feel painful to read it.

I feel like finding and building relationship with a girl seems like an impossible mission for me, All I can show them it's just my stupid self made underground techno rave music and my other aesthetical hobbies, of curse none of them will be interested in my music making skills and my art taste, a few girls on the dating app the internet saying some compliments that I am cute and handsome and one of them even said that I look like a model. but I feel like its just fake asf and they are saying this is for only trying to get themselves a free meal.

like what should I do now? I don't even know how to approach and talk to the girls IRL, I am getting confused and angry as more as everytime when I see those men happily walking with their beautiful girlfriends on the streets, like how did they even do that, I really really can't figure it out in a long time and my confusion still lasts to this day.

Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:39 PM UTC

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