This is just for discussion sake

Okay, please riddle me this.

I stay in the "advice" and "girl dinner diaries" subs. What I've seen from both is women putting up with the bottom of the barrel men ON TOP OF having his kids.

Why??

It almost seems (and yes I'm biased) that there's a higher caliber of men within the cf cohort than the parent cohort.

Or maybe cf women aren't desperate to get pregnant by just anybody or just date/marry anyone.

Thoughts?