Solo Adventuring

Saw a post about side questing n wanted to share how I approach festivals. I’ve found the absolute most beautiful amazing people all while “not following the plan” so much so to the point I cringe when I even hear someone say “let’s do” “we gotta see” “so&so is playing at whatever time” When I hear/see people putting together plans and organizing as a group I literally feel the whimsey sucked out of me- to the point that I’ll just say “aight love yall see ya later” then go have the time of my life- I fucking love it-but why don’t people want to share in the whimsey. Is it a me thing?- I don’t care if so just trying to get into the mind of how one can enjoy themselves to the fullest extent with other people. Given I’ve never come with people I’d consider my ride or die, so maybe that could be the gap? But I truly feel i’m able to give my all to ANYONE that will accept it-and don’t care if they don’t. But can’t help to think about the thousands of people that have never lived like that- always with someone-a group-a plan. Thanks for coming to my ted talk, please let me know your thoughts!