"close friends" suddenly ghosting me and my other friend
Problem/Goal:
Am I wrong for being mad and disappointed at two of my close friends suddenly ghosting me and my other friend? Their reason was "di lang ikaw hindi nirereplayan namin"
Context:
We were originally a group of 5 friends which yung isa ghosted us first. He wouldn't reply to any of us and even attempted to leave our group chat which we eventually added him back. We really have no clue what we did wrong.. like prior to that we always make sure to invite him out to study and eat but he always refuses. Anyway we just leave it be because dealing with ppl like that is just so exhausting- palagi ka magiisip kung may nagawa kang mali or what.
Samahan ng late graduates kasi kami. Mock boards nalang kulang so yun always kami nagsasama para mag study. Nung May i passed my first mockboard (2 in total) while sila wala pa. Recently nagkaroon ng retake which nag kamusta ako sa kanila if ok na ba or what. At ayun yung dalawa di na nagrerep... I mean gets ko naman na ayaw na nila kinukilit but we've been there before eh. Ilang beses na kami nagsama na bagsak ang results but it was never like this.
Kinda hypocrital lang kasi galit din sila dun sa friend namin na ginhost kami first tapos now they're doing it to us??? Yung isa kong friend sobrang disappointed din kasi silang tatlo bagsak eh pero kasali siya sa ginhost. Di nagrereply sa pm pero sa thesis gc namin active. I mean not complaining ha. I mentioned them dun na kung pwede check nila pm ko but, noooo ignored parin. And it's not like they're both ignoring each din kasi makita namin sa stories nila na nagsasama sila to eat, tambay or what. Ofc we don't mind lol but makaisip ka talaga ano ginawa namin??
Before pa niyan, since I passed the exam they were reviewing for, minsan na lng ako sumasama sa kanila. Pero pinahiram ko sa kanila notes ko tapos tinuruan ko pa ng mga shortcut methods for solving. As in I never thought na angat na ako dahil lang I passed 1 exam.
Ngayon nag leave na kami sa gc namin lima. Sorry pero pet peeve ko talaga mga tao nag ghoghost. Lalo na pag ka-close mo.. we literally spent our college days together, sabay sabay nabagsak sa mga majors, went on trips etc.. isn't that close enough to tell us the reason why di nila bet mag response or what? Or entitled much ako masyado?
I admit din pala I was swayed medj by my emotions. Naka repost ako na vid sa tiktok with a caption na "I was such a good friend to lame ass ppl" 😭😭 lol ayun na trigger ata kasi nag notes sa insta na di lang daw kami di nila nirereplyan with kasama malutung na mura huhu
Now I'm feeling like shit bc I think me and my friend are overreacting. I admit it was a bit childish for me to repost that tiktok video lol kakasad lang talaga sira ang years of friendship dahil lang sa ganito
Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:47 PM UTC