Is this the actual mood that makes people want foreplay

So oka 20 mins back thought of mastrubating and locked myself in my room and after getting naked and playing with my dick for a while I was just randomly strolling through reddit feed my dick got smaller ante it was out of erection and it's fucking cold outside so just now my mood wants to do foreplay . If I had a girl by my side more than the desire to fuck nen most probably nak aa ammai neck kiss cheyali and bite cheyali ani undi. Idk i just did some kisses and stuff virgin nenu . People explain exploring sexuality 😭