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39 [M4F] #DMV #NOVA

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Hey there! I am an extrovert looking for a spark. I'm outgoing, funny and pretty relaxed. My home life is solid, but I keep finding myself wanting more; ideally, you're in a similar situation. Discretion is important and this should develop organically. I enjoy check-ins, being able to discuss our lives, and finding little escapes together.

About me: 39, married for 10+ years, have kids, fit, 6’2”, and live in Northern Virginia. I’m naturally curious and consider myself an autodidact. I enjoy a good house project and spending time outside.

I’m active and like staying that way. Running, rowing, and lifting are all in the rotation, but I’m equally happy going for a walk and listening to a new audio book (I have a bit of an addiction). Love concerts, sporting events, and traveling to random places. Finally, I am passionate about my work and enjoy a good social life.

About you: you're confident, attractive, warm, independent, and easy to talk to. You value direct communication, have a good sense of humor, value and strive to stay fit, and you can appreciate a slow burn. Bonus points if you're a little competitive 😉 You enjoy communicating and want a good balance of the emotional and physical aspects.

If you made it this far, tell me a little about yourself and anything you think I’d find interesting. I’d love to get to know you!

Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:50 PM UTC

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