I'm just starting out I need some advice

Hello, everyone.

I’m pretty new to this scene. I’ve already tried diapers and pull-ups. I’ve managed to pee in them—I’m pretty happy about that—but mostly while lying down. Sitting or standing is pretty difficult for me. It’s impossible while standing. As for pooping in diapers, I’ve barely managed it once, but it wasn’t much. I feel like I could do more, but it’s just impossible.

So I’m here to ask for advice.

First, for peeing, what do you recommend to make it easier? Maybe drinking something specific?

As for pooping in my diaper, how can I manage that? Should I eat something specific? Maybe a laxative—could that help me get used to it the first time?

Thanks in advance for your answers and advice. Please don’t hesitate to share your thoughts.😁