35 [M4F] #Lilburn - Looking for the right person

I'm a 35-year-old Black guy, 5'8" 210 lbs, and a pretty big blerd (short for "Black nerd"). Basically, I'm into gaming, sci-fi, fantasy, anime, comics, and other geeky hobbies. Most of my free time is spent gaming, building model kits, watching sci-fi or fantasy stuff, or disappearing down random lore rabbit holes. Lately I've been bouncing between Darktide and Apex Legends, though I'm always open to trying other games.

Personality-wise, I'm an INTJ. I'm definitely more on the quiet side when I first meet people, but once I'm comfortable, I open up a lot. I like conversations that go beyond small talk, but I also appreciate someone who can laugh at dumb memes or joke around.

I want to be upfront about something because I'd rather not waste anyone's time: I'm still a virgin. I'm not looking for someone to "fix" that or a one-night stand. I'd rather get to know someone first, build some trust, and actually feel comfortable with each other before anything physical happens. If that's not your thing, no hard feelings.

I don't really have a specific type when it comes to women. If we click, we click. Kindness, honesty, and being able to communicate matter a lot more to me than fitting some ideal.

If you're looking for something that starts with conversation instead of rushing into anything, I think we'd probably get along. Whether we end up dating, becoming friends first, or just having someone new to nerd out with, I'm cool with seeing where things go naturally.

And just so I know you actually made it to the end of the post, tell me your top 5 in at least one category when you message me—games, anime, TV shows, movies, books, manga, or whatever you're into. It'll give us something to talk about right away and save us from the usual "hey" messages.