Seeking advice or recommendations
Hello,
I’m somewhat of a recent plugger, only having been practicing this more consistently in the last year. Although, I’ve practiced sporadically in the past. I’ve made strong efforts to educate myself as much as possible and I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve made mistakes that luckily didn’t have catastrophic consequences.
But, in many ways I still feel kinda new to this. All of this to say, that I’ve been using plugs from the brand B-Vibe and it’s a brand that I’ve really grown to like a lot and I feel like the material doesn’t cause discomfort like others have e.g., weird burning sensation.
The only thing is that when I wear my favorite one for hours, I am able to wear it pretty comfortably with the exception that the flared base digs into my skin between my cheeks. While it is not terribly uncomfortable, and it definitely doesn’t hurt a lot. I add that, I feel this predominantly while I’m sitting, i do also experience this while standing, walking or in other similar situations. So, this is something that I’m concerned about and has been on my mind.
Oh, and I also try to reapply water-based lube periodically throughout the day, while mostly trying to recognize and discomfort from drying up.
So, my question is, is this normal? You know, to feel the flared base to kinda dig into the sides of your cheeks? Should I consider getting a different plug with a narrower flared base, or are there ways to still use my favorite plug long term without it digging into my skin?
Any recommendations will be greatly appreciated.
Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:56 PM UTC