Aaj main apne life ka ek bohot important observation share karunga,

Meri mom 44 years ki hai, abhi recently main apni mom ko nani ke paas xhod kar aaya, nani ko fever tha aur meri nani ka ghar js two kms away, fir bhi meri mom nani ke ghar do din se zyada nahi ruk paayi, cause unhe mere dada, dadi ko sambhalna tha,

Main khana wagera bana raha tha fir bhi my grand pa and dadi, chidhe huwe rehte the ki mom nani ke paas aa gayi, yk middle class family mein misogyny bohot chalti hai,

And abhi main soch raha hun, kuch din mein meri mom meri dadi and grand pa se chutkara paa legi, like 5,6 saal mein nipat jaayenge, but mujhe dar hai ki nani ki bhi death na ho jaaye, fir mom ke paas time toh rahega freedom bhi rahegi but woh log nahi rahenge jaha mom apne aap ko express kar paati hai,

Kabhi kabhi it feels like yeh saari baatein bohot fake hai, ki Bahu beti samaan hoti hai & all that shit, nahi bhai, AISA NAHI HOTA!!!, aise treat karte hai jaise ki ek ladki ko khareed karke laaya hai, sirf ghar ke kaam karne ke liye,

It's so fuckin" annoying behe**c*od, maine aaj nani ko seedha on the spot kaha, thoda padhne ka mauka de diya hota aur zyada toh yeh gareeb aur ek dam galeech ghar mein shadi nahi karna padta,

Ab woh baat alag hai ki shadi nahi hoti toh main yaha reddit pe yeh sab likh bhi nahi raha hota,

But atleast mom ki zindagi yeh chote chote basic needs ko attain karna mushkil nahi hota, independent rehti mom meri, khudke decisions lene ke time 10 logon se puchna nahi padta