I think I'm gonna die in this house

Why is it so hard to explain to parents that being s3qz, repulsed, and asexual doesn't also mean I don't want a romantic relationship with my partner -3-

My grandmother was like, "Oh, but I thought you didn't do the whole dating thing" qwq

also its upsetting that they accept me as asexual bc its a "good type" in their eyes and will still say slurs to lgbt ads and scenes in movies infront of me