As a 22F, what is the oldest I can date before it gets fucked up in the eyes of society and in relationship dynamics?

I've been thinking recently that I would love an older man in my life. For so many reasons that it's hard to list but mainly the desire to have a stable pillar. I don't want someone who wants to party, someone i constantly have to worry about cheating on me ir being seduced by someone else. I don't wanna travel. I don't wanna mess around with drugs and alcohol. And all of those things are exactly what I experience with my generation

For me personally, I think 32 is the oldest I can go before it feels weird and fucked up. I don't wanna date a man who was in his 20s when I was born but I guess it heavily depends on the individual

The relationship dynamics could easily become tipped on one scale. I want to be equals, with him slightly above me

So to circle back on my question, as a 22F, what is the oldest I can date before it gets fucked up in the eyes of society and in relationship dynamics?

Btw when I was 20 I went out on a date with a 39yo. People looked terrified seeing us together lol