Starting to have negative feelings towards Silksong, is this just a skill issue

I'm up to where you need to get the Citadel threefold song, I have about 22 hours of playtime and have the map of about 14 locations.

Up to know I have been really enjoying it, glad it was a step up in difficulty right after finishing HK for the first time. It is a great looking game, decent platforming and good areas.

Though I find the difficulty to be mainly due to certain bosses or sections having poor enemy placement, or bosses spawning things in. It seems that their idea of a challenge is to overwhelm you with enemies rather than thought out patterns you need to memorise. There's also some hideous boss runbacks (but after playing FromSoft games I dint mind these as much)