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32[M4F] Denver,Colorado Alt nerdy chef seeking love

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I'm Tyler, I'm 32, and I live in Denver. I'm looking to meet my person! I'm a 5'9" guy with an average build, currently around 170 lbs, but I'm trying to be more active. Im looking for good communication and someone who wants to out in the effort!!

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A little about me: I'm a high-functioning autistic adult and have ADHD, so I'm very high energy and love to talk about anything and everything. If you are also any variety of neurospicy, then I encourage you to message!

I like to say I'm a creative person. I love to cook, especially for people I care about. I'm classically trained and love trying new dishes and learning how to make stuff, so if you like tasty food, that's a perk! Outside of that, I love to draw and write, and I've spent years on my D&D homebrew world, so I can yap about that for ages. Like most nerds, I love movies, anime, and gaming, and I've been working through my ever-growing backlog of things to watch and play. For games, I'm big on RPGs and roguelikes, and I've recently gotten back into Destiny 2 and FF14. I mostly do PC gaming, so there's that!

As for non-indoor hobbies, I love anything water-based and checking out local coffee shops! I'm always down for mini golf, even though I'm hot trash at it, but I love cool course designs. I love checking out art exhibits and trying new things at museums. Maybe it should go without saying, but let's do an escape room—I love game design and puzzles!! I've also recently gotten into exploring more goth and punk fashion and am looking to explore and share that as well!

My favorite game of all time is Dragon Age: Origins. I love Destiny 2 (RIP).

I love collecting TTRPGs and am currently learning Pathfinder 2 and Draw Steel.

Reading-wise, I'm currently re-reading the Dungeon Crawler Carl books. I'm caught up on the Stormlight Archive and am also reading The Lies of Locke Lamora.

I love a good board game and TCG. I collect those too, but mostly to play. Magic is my primary game of choice, but I've also got some Chaotic, and I'm hyped to see that game coming back!

Now, as to what I'm looking for. \*\*Please be between 25-36 years old.\*\*

I need honest and open people. I'm looking for straightforwardness and openness. I'll share and talk about anything, but I'm bad at reading people. Also kindness, honesty, and someone who genuinely wants to build a relationship in this wild world! Also, someone who is actually going to respond, please. If you're going to message me and then not respond for two days, why even start a conversation?!?

I'd like to learn and hear about you! So if you think we could get along, shoot me a message and tell me about a hobby you've been into lately! Also share your tattoos and include a picture of you so I know you are serious!

Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:58 PM UTC

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