How do I dress to look attractive to women I'm trying to hook up with.

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I've been trying to hook up for almost 7 years without a single success. Recently over the last year I've posted a lot in local r4r pages.

I've talked to hundreds of real women that weren't scammers. But I always enb up rejected or ghosted. Because I'm a skinny average guy who doesn't look physically attractive.

Recently I've had people tell me multiple times that women don't like when you wear plain white underwear. Or when you don't shave or shave too much. Or that women only find men attractive if they dress one way or another.

So what I'm trying to ask is how should I try to look on r4r posts or dating profiles. How does one dress and what look do I actually need to go for to actually attract or at least not be a turn off to women the moment they see me.

Any advice or information would be appreciated

Posted Aug 13, 2026, 4:59 PM UTC

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