Homemade sourdough. My best loaf…

For starters, me and my girlfriend have been dating for 3 years in a happy wlw relationship. We have had absolutely no problems communicating, she’s literally the love of my life and we even moved in together last year. 

Ever since I moved in, our sex life has slowly gotten worse. 3 months ago she completely stopped wanting it. We’ve had sex 4-5 times this year and it’s August. 

I love her for more than that. I don’t even need sex to be happy but my love language is physical and well, includes sex. 

I’ve asked her a few times, “do I stink?” Always said no. I’ve always told her if there was any issues, to tell me. I’m a very frequent and prone UTI/yeast infection haver no matter my hygiene. It’s genetic, my mom and grandma too. With this, it’s so frequent sometimes I don’t even know so I always told her to tell me. 

Well she didn’t tell me. I finally just sat down with her and was blunt and asked again and she finally confessed that I did have a smell. Not bad, but it turned her off completely and she hasn’t wanted sex. I noticed the last time we had sex (back in May) she barely touched me. At all. It wasn’t nice. Made me very insecure and I’m just upset she waited months to tell me. After being denied time after time of sex, asking if there was issues, it took months for her to tell me. 

It hurt. Really bad. I want to fix it. I’ve started drinking more water and focusing on probiotic oriented foods. I’ve always eaten healthy but I’ve been more mindful, I even completely cut caffeine. 

I think I fixed it, but I’m scared that’s all she’s gonna think about. It makes me cry thinking about it, I know it’s dramatic but I feel disgusting and dirty. I shower twice a day, use unscented soap down there on the outside, use 3 different body washes, etc. I’m super clean. It’s not a hygiene problem. 

She also only smells it when we have sex. That’s it. Is it a ph problem? Should I go see a doctor?

I worry that I stink