Better Exceptions shows me a different mod error every time i open the game

I’m going insane. i’m actually going to lose it. I haven’t been able to play the game ever since august 7th. everytime i open the game, better exception tells me about a mod conflict, i close the game to delete the mod, i open the game after deleting the mod, it tells me about a different mod, i close the game again to delete it , and now it’s a loop. why can’t better exceptions just tell me all the mod conflicts straight away? i am genuinely going crazy. im playing on a low end pc and i have a shit ton of mods, my game takes 50 minutes to open into live mode. i wait the 50 minutes every single time to be told to delete a different mod. i think im losing it. like im genuinely going to explode. someone save me from this i beg