To conceive a baby is very difficult 😞

Hello everyone, community. I am doing this post because I need moral support from you. I am writing in French because I can express myself better like this.

I am a young man married (26) to my wife (23). Once again my wife just told me this morning that she has seen her period. It has already been 9 cycles that we are looking to conceive a baby. My hopes for this 9th cycle have just soared when my wife just told me that she has seen her period. I thought I was prepared with no hope for her to be pregnant. But I was wrong; every announcement is a tear in my heart.

The worst part is that two years ago we had an abortion when we were not yet stable and prepared to have a child. It was such a difficult decision for us. And I was afraid that I would regret that decision one day.

Indeed, that day has arrived. I never imagined that conceiving was so difficult. Especially since we have tried several methods ranging from basal temperature monitoring to ovulation tests that allow us to synchronize our reports during the fertile period. But that hasn't been any point so far.

The worst part is that I have to be strong for my wife and myself. I have to comfort her, support her during this ordeal and reassure her that the next time will be the right one. But I also suffer enormously.

This is what it is now, I am suffering enormously and I am gradually losing hope that I can have a child with my wife.