Feels like I have no one to talk to about my relationship

Like the titles states, I deadasss feel like I have no one to talk to about my relationship or my girl will get mad at me. We’re both 25F, been together for 2.5 yrs now but it’s starting to seem like every little thing I do makes her mad. Last weekend I sat her down and asked, “do I seriously make you this upset about things”, she replied no. But I feel I can’t make jokes without her taking them to heart, she says I’m nonchalant (we also smoke hella weedies so I be chilling lol) but I told her I’m secure in our relationship (I’ve been through too much in relationships so I sat myself down to work through my triggers and whatnot -healing never stops to me). She wants us to do more and I do too cs she keeps saying “we are going get too comfortable”, I suggest we go to crafting store but she naps majority of the time we’re together. Like I feel like I’m losing my damn trying to always keep the peace just her to be upset with something I say or do. If you’d like more context with anything please ask and gotcha