I’m wondering whether I should distance myself from my boyfriend.

[Serious decision]

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He is preparing for the medical entrance exam. I don’t know why, but he has become very rude. If I talk to him about something other than studies, he gets very irritated.this is his last attempt

Today, I told him about my male friend, and he became very insecure. He said, ‘I don’t even have a female bestie, and you have been mentioning another guy in front of me for the past four days. All these things distract me and affect my studies. Don’t you understand? What has happened to you? Have you eaten shit or what that you dont get it.Don’t do these cheap things from now on. If I start mentioning some girl’s name, you will abuse saying I'm cheating on you this that .

He told me that from now on, he will not talk to me lovingly because I spoiled his drop year last year, which is true. I myself am distracted, I don’t study, and I don’t let him study either.

Now he doesn’t respect me at all because he thinks I’m not serious about my future. He thinks I just waste my time watching reels and using my phone all day, talking to my friends, gossiping, and that I have no goals in my life.”

Posted Aug 13, 2026, 8:26 PM UTC

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