AIO My mom just won’t leave me alone about giving birth.

I’m 37 weeks pregnant and my mom WILL NOT just leave me alone she’s been continuously demanding that she is to be in the labor and delivery room and that she’s the first one i contact when i go into labor. i get up to atleast one or 2 text messages a day to her insisting this and if i try telling her slightly i don’t want her there she completely blows up. and i know a-lot of people are going to tell me she’s my mom and she’s just trying to be there for me but i wasn’t even raised by my mom and she was rarely even there for me when i did need her as a child so why swoop in now and be completely overbearing and make my decisions yours? AIO for being annoyed and stressed out over this and just wishing she would stop and accept the fact she can come see the baby AFTER she’s born just like everyone else