36 [M4F] #Indianapolis #Indiana – zero mind games.

I’m a 36-year-old bi, married dad in Indy. I'm a big, solid guy (beard + dad bod combo) who values directness, authenticity, and direct communication over dating games. When I’m off the clock, I’m usually gaming, reading, building Legos, catching local racing, or breaking things in the name of DIY home repair.

If you’re tired of guessing games and miss the simple warmth of feeling wanted, desired, and appreciated—we’re already on the same page.

My home life is stable and co-parenting is solid, but the romantic/physical aspect of my marriage has long since run its course. I’m looking for a discreet, local connection with a woman who misses real affection, deep conversation, and physical intimacy.

I love curvy women, but genuine chemistry trumps a type every time. The goal is a real emotional connection that translates to meeting up locally once the spark is there.

Skip the generic "hi" and hit me with your favorite book/podcast recommendation or your worst DIY disaster!