Please...Please....Please...Don't bring child in this world if your marriage is unhealthy.

Assalamu Alaikum everyone,

Please, if you're stuck in an unhealthy marriage, seriously consider divorce.

Don't have a child thinking it will save the relationship. It won't.

It will only make things worse the child suffers,

and one (or both) of you ends up trapped in a lifetime of pain.

Once you become a parent, there's no easy way out. You can't fully live, and you can't fully escape. The suffering just continues.

Think carefully before bringing a child into a broken marriage.

Written by a father who wishes someone had told him this earlier.