How would you handle DARVO from a family member?

I went no contact with my sister, blocked her from my daughter’s phone and now shes running around playing victim. She was hardly active in her life. And now others are trying to tell me that Im hurting my daughter by going no contact. Here is one of the texts i got from my stepmom.

Morning (my name)! I hope your daughter is still loving school!! Your sister just mentioned that you blocked her from your daughters phone. I understand you’re still upset about the egg cracking but I just wanted to throw out that you’re hurting your daughter more in this. Yes what happened unfortunately happened. Please don’t bring your daughter in this. She needs a village. A village full of love. I know your sister loves her so much. I don’t think she would ever do such a thing again like that. Please please please don’t take that bond with them away. If she ever did anything like that to her again then yes. Your sister didn’t show your daughter. She may at the time not meant harm sending to you. Everyone responds to things differently. She realized what she did wrong but when she saw that sent it to you thinking that time was past. I truely don’t think she meant harm sending it. We all take things differently at points and time in life. Did your daughter see this? If not please think of her and let her have that special bond of an aunt. I beg you! I firmly believe kids need all the love they can get from everyone without anyone trying to hinder it. I hope this makes sense. I love you so much!!

Now i am not going to respond at all but i would love to hear how others would handle this. Btw my sister egged my daughter in the face never actually apologized. Weirdly i forgave a none apology. A year later she sent a text saying ptsd with a video of kids getting egged. Like i was suppose to find it funny and then she goes off on ME bc i didn’t laugh 🤣

Posted Aug 13, 2026, 8:34 PM UTC

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