It's fine to have a genital preference, just please shut up about it in trans spaces

Personally I don't understand how you can no feel like a asshole doing so but whatever, it's your right ig. Just please for the love of don't talk about it in trans spaces. Or at the very least feel the tiniest bit of shame about it. Can we not have one space where I don't have to see gay guys talk about how much cis dick and how they could never date anyone who didn't have one. I don't want to be reminded that even other trans men see me as less valuable and less attractive because of something I had absolutely zero control over.