Avoidant Partner

Hello! Just wanted to ask if naka try na ba mo og uyab og someone na avoidant. I have an ex and I realized na he was an avoidant.

3 months no contact, and I have this urge na mag message. Nag relapse na sad ko. 😅

Ngano kaha no na i self-sabotage nila ang relationship, and magpalupig sila sa ilang mga fears and doubts. And grabe pud ang pride and ego.

I’m curios if naa ba diri same dynamic na avoidant-anxious na naging successful ilang relationship and till now sila gihapon.

Please feel free ishare inyo experience pud. Thank you!