Discussion Promt

In my experience a lot of women don’t deserve to be with a trans man. In my experience they prove to not be satisfied with trans men because they somehow end up with cis men and never coming back. My first gf was extremely vocal about hating men and not feeling safe with them. While we were freshly broken up she met a guy (cis) she chose to be with him instead of getting back with me. They are married now. They’ve been married for probably 7yrs now. I dated another girl temporarily who always made it very clear she likes dick. We ended things and she also married a cis man LOL. My former ex never engaged in trans topics. She never said why. I thinks it made her uncomfortable to possibly offend me. She fucked a cis man freshly into our break up. 🤣 I have trust issues. Currently, I don’t believe any woman deserves me as a trans man. As a man alone yes but if you’re troubled by asking the hard questions then you aren’t for me because I am very open and vocal of my trans experience and I’ve always been with all partners. The one partner who always made me feel safe and understood was a guy I was with for over a year. Though, He ended up being a creep. No surprise there. He was deep in his addiction. Moral of the story be friends or really get to know a person before committing. Commitment is precious and should be shared with the absolute best compatible and understanding person. I want to date women who are experienced with dating trans men and not just casual dates and hookups. Someone who’s been with a trans man long term and actually learned something. If you read all this thank you. I would love feedback or we can continue a conversation about this because I feel so alone sometimes. Sometimes I believe there will never be someone for me but that’s my fear talking. Slowly I’m rebuilding trust in people, but now I’m extremely careful of who I bring into my life. There’s a lot of ignorant chasers and I’ve found a pattern in my relationships. I was still presenting as a woman when I was dating those people. Only my former ex was with me through the absolute beginning of my trans experience. Longest relationship I’ve had. Almost 4yrs, so in conclusion she was doing something right but not enough to keep me from leaving. Now idk where we stand. I’ve never loved someone like her. She was accepting, extremely empathetic and sweet. I’m sure there’s other women who share those same qualities and traits. For now I’ve been basking in my freedom, my peace and individuality. This is the best I’ve felt in a long time. 🙏

I’m jot asking for criticism or correcting. I simply want to have a conversation about this because unfortunately for me but also fortunately I don’t have friends to talk about these topics with. I’d like to have a discussion about this and hear other peoples opinions and experiences. I’m going to post this on a few subreddits for a broader perspective.