I Can’t Tell if I’m Hypersharing or Selective Sharing

Like the title of this post says, I’m not really sure if I’m hypersharing or selective sharing. On one hand, I love seeing and engaging with doubles (unless they’re nonsharing, then I try not to interact with them if possible or if a double breaks my DNI), but at the same time, I’ll block a double if they make me uncomfortable, even though it’s not because they’re a double, it’s more so if they go against my DNI or just give me bad vibes, but I think I also feel a small sense of protectiveness towards some of my F/O’s, and while I respect nonsharing, there’s also a bit of sadness or disappointment or something that I feel when I come across a nonsharing double of one of my F/O’s and I just don’t know why.